Bloganuary - Day 2 - How are you brave? Being a constant beginner is a brave thing, truly. It is rarely true that when you start something new, you will be good at it right away. If you are growing at all, it is because you are constantly taking steps - new ones..unfamiliar ones. The … Continue reading The beginning is never the end
Bloganuary - Day 1 - What is something you want to achieve this year? You know, the funny thing is I already achieved this year's goal! In this year, I will walk deeper in to it, and achieve fuller self-actualization with my gender transition. Last year, I examined the many ways in which I had continued … Continue reading Passing
Facing the Pacific Ocean, I took off my tshirt. It was the first time baring my chest publicly. I beheld my moment only a short while before another bare chested man walked by. “Rastaman!” “Whoa!” I shouted back. “Where you from?” “The Caribbean.” “I’m from the Caribbean Sea - this coast touches the Pacific Ocean … Continue reading The Outers
I love myself through the process of stepping deeper and farther into that self that I am loving.
I see...patterns, and cycles which repeat themselves, are likely to continue doing so. I made a choice not to get spun around in another loop around the track. In the last year, my confidence took a swan dive, but I found a route back. It started off mildly enough. They'll lean in as if they're … Continue reading The narcissist cyclic web
https://youtu.be/XtJROwOGPJY No. A complete sentence, from a recovered people-pleaser. I recently had an old client reach out to me with a 4-page letter demanding a refund. I was surprised at first, then angered. Once I had processed it, and ran it through a filter of objectivity and clarity, I responded. I had not bothered to … Continue reading No. A complete sentence.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ghlj3h4rMA Transcript of audio:We are mirror reflections for each other, but for some of us, we are only willing to clean our mirrors to the extent that we can retain the illusions that stare back at us.Honesty is gritty work.And..I've experienced that, the more clearly and purely you are able to be honest with yourself … Continue reading Reflections
When you're neck-deep in whatever it is..it can be challenging to see things clearly.Last year was a rough year for me. At the same time though, every time I would clear a hurdle, the line between the lifestyle I want and my diligent efforts to attain it would get shorter and shorter.Two things occur to me much more clearly now … Continue reading Your evolution is not a ‘nothing’
Yesterday’s post was a little different..it was an audio narration and a diagram that I did on the process of getting unstuck..This is a follow-up, in that another very essential component of healing is those periods when you’ve got to make a hard left - a turn - based on what you discover about yourself … Continue reading Growth is embarassing
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEP91MG6mmM A visual roadmap on getting unstuck and rewriting your story, from the depth of your soul..#gettingunstuck #duality #humanity #spirituality #soulwork #deepreconditioning #hybridhumans
JanBerry 